Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We celebrate all healthy bodies here.
This has been bothering me for a bit. I’m 17 years old and I have absolutely no libido. When I was 15 I was crazy horny and now, just nothing. I don’t want to get myself off, I don’t want to be intimate with my boyfriend, I’m not even that interested in kissing. I still have sex with my boyfriend because I’m hoping it’ll help get me more interested in sex, but I feel bad cause I know the sex we’re having is not as good as it could be for him and not really enjoyable for me most of the time.
I’m attracted to my boyfriend, but even if someones attractive I feel no desire to have sex with them. My vagina is in this eternal state of nope. I want to want to have sex and be intimate with my boyfriend, but I don’t know how to fix it.
like there are literally millions of people who suffer from mental illness but can’t access decent care, so every time i see someone go on a tangent about self-diagnosers i want to ask them what they think those people should do instead.
i am dead fucking serious. tell me. what do you recommend they do? because it kinda sounds like you don’t give a fuck, and that makes you an ableist, classist piece of shit.